The combination of 17-year-old J (for Jennifer) who writes epitaphs in the darkness of her Goth life and almost-fifty, suprisingly keen-witted and tolerant Randall shouldn't work as the leading pair of any film. But they do because of the heart-felt and profoundly intelligent performances of Leelee Sobieski (of the piercing gray-blue eyes) and Albert Brooks (who should, by now, have an entire shelf filled with Academy Awards). Goth girl and uptight clothing salesman make a gentle connection that proves enlightening and life-affirming for both of them. Directed to great effect by Christine Lahti, this is a film that could've been a sweetly sickening confection. Instead, its potentially saccharine moments are salvaged by surprising nuggets of truth and humor. We have the privilege of watching these two characters grow and evolve into finer versions of themselves. Ably assisted by Carol Kane (as J's ditzy but good-hearted mother) and Michael McKean (one of the exceptionally versatile regulars on the great Tracy Ullman show) in a toupee that's so terrible it deserves a special award. Kudos go to Mary Kay Place and John Goodman who carry off their supporting roles good-naturedly. This is a lovely film that tugs at the heart-strings without being manipulative while, at the same time, tweaking our funny bones.Most highly recommended.